You Go First: What Co-Regulation Really Asks of Parents
Children borrow regulation from adults, but that does not mean parents must be perfectly calm. Here is what “you go first” really means.
Before the Lesson, Check the Nervous System
Reasoning, consequences and lectures often fail during a meltdown. Learn what to check before trying to teach.
Your Kid is Good
What if difficult behavior is not proof of who your child is, but information about what is happening beneath the surface?
